Selasa, 23 Desember 2008

Well Formed Outcome

In not more than two weeks we will come to a new year.
What is a new year mean?
For some people it doesn't mean anything. A new year eve just another night they spend without any different from other nights.
For some other it just a night for celebrating a special night with friends and colleagues.
For the rest of the people, and I don't think there are many of this kind, consider new year's eve as a moment for creating a future plan. They are making what is known in NLP as Well Formed Outcome.
So what is well formed outcome?
The idea is that you answer the question of "What do you want?"
You should mention what you want in order to really feel it. It is like a target when you shoot. This goal must be stated in positive sentence. For example instead of saying that you DON'T WANT TO BE SICK then it is much powerful if you say you WANT TO BE HEALTHY.
Once you know what do you want or what do you want to be then you start asking "When do you decide to get what do you want?"
Once you know when you want to get it, you then ask "What does it feel when you get it?"
If you can feel it, taste it, smell it or see the thing that you want then you will be more powerful, energetic, and highly motivated to work and reach it.
So now you start asking "What are the resource that you have to get it?"
One presupossition that you must keep in your mind that "People have all the resources they need within themselves." The challenge is many people do not realise the resource they have, they do not utilize it yet, they cannot identify it. After you check your own resource, you find that there is one or two more resources that you need to get what you want then why don't you find it in other people or other resource somewhere else?
Now you have all the resources to get what you want...What next? The next thing that you need to do is to start acting, MAKE A MOVE!!!
Start doing things that you need to do to make your goal come true. A small step will bring you to 100kms journey. But remember once you make a move, you should MAINTAIN your spirit as it is your own target.
Its that easy isn't it?
So what are you waiting for? This is the end of the year. Let's start 2009 with a new way of looking at our life. Let's navigate our life with a new and reliable compass of life, it is your WFO.
Good luck...

2 komentar:

  1. mantap.....
    blognyo mah pak....
    buekan wak ciek pak...
    dari ma pak baraja tu ...
    sato wak ciek!!!!
    lai buliah tu pak...????
    sip khan???????

    BalasHapus
  2. apak klo lah di ateh motor tu ongeh bana....
    ndak takana jo wak lai....
    sapo gai org ganteng ko pak.....
    salam damai....
    peace.......

    BalasHapus

Thanks for your comments.
May your life fill up with happiness.