Many times we have to face a condition in which our children belief that they cannot do something, say study. They belief that they cannot do well in their math, or in their English. So what do we do?
Agreeing with them and asking WHY they do not do well in any subject may not help so much as this will STRENGTHEN their belief.
One of the thing that we can do is first Give them a very big hug, a warm and tenderly one. This will release their stress. Secondly find their best way of doing things, the things that they can do best. Try to copy this behaviour to the situation where they feel uncomfortable.
Finally tell them that they can do it and you believe they can do it.
Have a try...
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